Dating and Relationships
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How To Get Rizz And Other First-Time Dating Tips
Want to start dating or upgrade your dating game, lowkey? Then you’ve come to the right place. Strike the perfect balance between confidence and chill by finding your rizz. If you don’t already know, rizz is a slang term (typically used in the Gen Z world) that stands for somebody’s charm or charismatic personality that people are drawn to, usually to lock in a romantic or sexual interest. Nothing feels better than being locked in.
While anxiety is natural and usually happens when building your crush up in your head, and trying to find the courage to talk to them, rizz overcomes. Rolling with the awkward punches can lead to gassed moments (if you catch the drift). When trying to figure out how to have rizz, just know it’s all about owning your vibe and letting your natural humour shine through. If the person you want to lock down feels that, you’re well on your way to securing the love bag.
However, there are a few initial rizz tips that are giving ‘success story’. Instead of finding inspiration in teen comedies or rom-coms that don’t always understand the assignment, Durex® Canada has strategies on how to rizz up your crush in easy-to-manage methods. Are you ready friends and fam?
Rizz Tips To Count On
It might seem cringe or hopeless to search for, but everybody’s got rizz laying around just waiting to be presented to the world and, at the very least, to those you’re interested in. Authenticity is your best flex – trying to be anybody but is way more exhausting and people can see right through it. When you’re chill about things, the person you’re into is more likely to relax and be easy too. Take a deep breath, toss out the imaginary “rules”, and let the vibe flow naturally. You got this!
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How To Rizz Up Your Crush Casually
If you’re looking for subtle ways to impress that special person you’re into, the first step is to avoid trying too hard. Seriously. If you’re thinking of opening a conversation with, “Looks like heaven lost one of their angels”, it’ll land on the corny side. Approach your romantic (or sexual) interest like you’re already the main character in your own film – relaxed and unserious. Compliment something unexpected like their music taste or killer meme game, ask a fun question, and keep it light. Assess their personality and look out for their habits, values, and style. That’s on rizz advice!
If you’re looking to rizz someone up in person, maintain great eye contact and non-threatening or dominating body language. Keep a warm and comfortable environment for them to feel open to. Odds are, they’ll be more likely to maintain focus if you stay focused on them.
For more flirty ways to land a major W, check out Sexting 101: 7 Tips To Help Pump Up Your Game.
How To Rizz Up Your Crush More Seriously
If you’re looking for a plan to rizz up a guy, girl, or whoever else catches your eye a little more seriously, it’s recommended to slide in with a smooth compliment, ask about their latest obsession, or throw in a playful tease that can challenge them. It’s less about saying or doing the perfect thing and more about vibing on similar wavelengths with supreme confidence. Playing an innocent game of ping-pong with your stellar words. Don’t be afraid to ask them what they’re looking for right now or if they’d be open to going on a date, depending on the energy you pick up.
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How To Rizz Up Your Crush Over Text
If you're wondering how to rizz up your crush over text, avoid those generic phrases or expressions and instead try boosting their self-esteem and pointing out specific interests you know they’re into. Also, be your own emoji master and show them your personality through short and witty sentences followed by a silly icon, as opposed to long-winded paragraphs they might get lost in. Don’t be shy to incorporate clever gifs.
More tips on how to rizz them up via the celly? Engage in a flirtatious debate – it can really boost your game. Choose a super silly topic then ask for their hot take. If you pick opposite ends of the spectrum, you can get a flirty battle going with your texting thumbs. Showing off your witty humour, exchanging memes, then inviting them to a party or group event can all be winning ways to get them thinking about you.
More First Time Dating Tips
In need of more advice on how to get rizz? Peep these pointers for extra aura points in your love life:
- Don’t ghost your potentials OR those who are interested in you that you’re not feeling – it’s way healthier to have a quick conversation letting them know you’re not interested then leaving them confused (and you won’t be labelled as a walking red flag)
- Try asking if they’d like to chat over the phone rather than sending hundreds of messages back and forth – you can establish more of a spontaneous connection when both parties are in a captivating back-and-forth call
- Know when to give it up when someone isn’t interested – chasing after someone to the point of desperation rarely works out, so know that “no” means “no” and search for something else within yourself
- Playing hard to get is a bit outdated – people value vulnerability and openness for a number of reasons, mainly because it shows more natural, human qualities and, often, that leads to more of a connection
Rizz Long And Prosper
To sum up the sauce, learning how to rizz is less about knowing the perfect pick-up line and more about feeling comfortable in your own skin with whoever who want to get to know better. Whether you’re hitting up a crush, sliding into the DMs, or flaunting that vibe IRL, just remember to keep it real, stay confident, and have fun. Dating is supposed to be a messy adventure, not a script to memorize. So go out there, take a leap, and never forget Durex® Canada is there to help you out with whatever may come next.
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