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Have A Horny Holiday, Here's A Sex Wishlist To Ask Your Partner(s) For
Coziness and curiosity may not go hand in hand at first glance, but the two can mesh perfectly under the umbrella of a sex bucket list. These holidays, treat your partner(s) to sex ideas with material objects, and other situations that stick around all season long (and spark excitement that even the strongest fireplaces can’t compete with). Add a few wishes to your sex list that are all about connection and a little extra spice.
The season of giving is the perfect excuse to give a little more time, effort, and imagination to your love life. Think of this as your ultimate guide to creating a wishlist of wishes both big and small that are sure to make your hot-lidays thrilling and festive. It goes without saying – but the colder it gets, the more reasons there are to keep each other warm.
So drop the typical gift cards, fancy dinners, or spa treatments this season (though those can be nice add-ons) and dive into a modern list of playful possibilities that can light up your winter. After all, bundles of joy don’t have to relate to just babies – you can ask your partner(s) for other things that make you cheer. Nothing feels better than warm welcomes.
Your Personal Sex Bucket List This Season
With special dates around the corner, and a lot of love to go around, you might be in the mood for more sexual stuff to try that can scratch your indoor itch. This sexual bucket list ranges from items you can buy to elevate your sex game and kinky things to try with your partner(s) to help each other’s spirits get all the more lifted. Plus, your stockings will be stuffed with sexy ideas to bring to life.
Speaking of sex ideas, check out Sweat, Seduction, And Sleigh Bells: Yoga Sex Positions To Try Over The Holidays for a good stretch that doubles as exercise.
Get A Load Of Flavoured Condoms
Since the holidays are all about sugar, spice, and everything nice, there’s nothing sweeter than a big stash of flavoured condoms to experiment with during all your nights in from the snowstorms. Take Durex® Tropical® Condoms*, for example – which come in four fruity flavours (strawberry, apple, orange, and banana) for extra fun that can help make oral sex sessions that much more flavourful. If giving or receiving a mouth full of fruity fun is on your sex bucket list, now’s the perfect time to experiment with this sweet idea. They also help bring the tropics to colder environments, so you can pretend you’re on a coastal vacay without the hefty price tag.
Build A Sex Fort In Your Living Room
Safer than the potential hazards of camping in the wintertime, use an array of blankets found around your space and pillows galore to erect a homemade fort. You and your partner(s) can put your sexual bucket list to good use inside of it. Get into multiple comfortable sex positions under the comfort of a cave you can proudly say you built yourself. Not only does it tap into new environment play, but it can bring you closer to your partner(s) under such tight quarters.
Slip Into New Lingerie, Boxers, Or Briefs
Nothing says sexy quite like a brand spanking new pair of boxers or briefs, or a lingerie set that speaks for itself. These items make for an ideal addition to your sex bucket list because they’re easy, playful, and are just as fun putting on as a confidence booster as they are to take off. They’re the gift of anticipation and the invitation to excitement. Explore sensual, touchable textures from lace to satin or silk and cotton. Bonus points if the pieces end up on your partner’s face(s), unable to escape from the irresistible nature of the materials.
Recreate Your Favourite Movie Sex Scene
Come on, you know you have that one in mind – the one that your parents may have walked in on you watching as a teenager. The snowy season is the perfect time to rewatch that gem with your partner(s) and attempt to do it exactly like the motion picture in mind. Make the motions happen for yourselves. Pre or post-popcorn, this sex idea guarantees pleasure with hints of nostalgia. It’s time to be the movie star you’ve always wanted to be.
If that specific scene happened to take place in the bathroom, get wetter and read Splash Into More Pleasure: 5 Shower Sex Positions To Try and turn up the temperature together as all the walls fog up.
Give, Or Receive, That Erotic Massage (Finally)
Your muscles must be weary from the entire year’s worth of physical activity or labour, so why not experiment with swapping erotic body massages with your partner(s)? To point you in the right direction with the tools you’ll need to execute techniques without a hitch, check out bottles like Durex® Play® Massage 2 in 1 Guarana* or Durex® Play® Massage 2 in 1 Aloe Vera*. Both products double as sensual body massage gels and personal lubricants for water-based, soothing rubdowns that can lead to something even more. And they come in red and green – perfect for the holidays!
Use the lubricants on areas like the upper back, inner thighs, nipples or breasts, genital areas, necks, and wherever else you feel could be worked on. It’s the ultimate form of relaxation during your time off that can get you off, too.
Use Body Paint To Make Art On Each Other
Combining creativity, intimacy, and the thrill of touch in a joyous way, body painting is an erotic sensory connection-based activity you and your partner(s) can take part in during these holidays. Before or after putting the finishing touches on decorating your space(s), decorate each other’s bodies with water-based or natural/organic body paints that can create works of art on the human canvas. Make sure to read the label carefully to check if it’s safe on human skin. Use your fingers to spread colourful streaks of pleasure across your partner’s skin and have them do the same to you. It’s a kinky thing to try that can lead to permanent connection, even when the paint itself is temporary.
Stay Safe This Holiday Season
Are you ready to check off every naughty box now? The nice list is overrated anyway. Since you have some holiday wishlist inspiration you can show your partner(s), there’s only one thing left to do – complete them all this time of year! Unwrap these surprises together and new traditions will be created. The memories (and new fan favourites) will keep you warm well into the new year. And, as always, explore the complete collection of condoms from Durex®* for extra protection to ring in a safe season.
Want extra ways to impress your female partner(s) when it’s oh so cold out? Learn 10 Ways To Drive Her Wild This Wintertime for inspiration she can cozy up to.
*Ensure this product is right for you. Always read and follow the label before use.
